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\u201cSome people are not happy unless they are unhappy.\u201d Have you heard that saying? Do you know a grouch or nit-picker or a chronic complainer who fits that description? We all do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This has become a sound-bite society in terms of communication. I don\u2019t think Twitter started it; it rather responded and codified the mode. \u201cBrevity is the soul of wit\u201d? \u2013 it is more the domain of nit-wits, it seems to me. Popular songs, TV commercials, slogans, \u201cheadline\u201d news\u2026 all conspire to cram us into short messages and shorter attention-spans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We have also devolved from acronyms and crazy abbreviations, lol, to emojis. There are enough of these symbols to inspire entire dictionaries. It ought to \u2013 at least \u2013 promise new forms of communication and clarity\u2026 but the opposite is happening. This week two different websites in another corner of my activities, the political world, have censured and censored me for responding to posts with a smiley-face. (Yes, I fall prey. And by the way, Adobe by itself offers more than half a million<\/em> variants of the dumb symbol!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n What had I meant to \u201csay\u201d? In a couple cases, I was trying to agree with what I thought were absurd posts; a couple times I wanted to register my opinion that the posts were laughable. I was rebuked, in traditional English, once by someone I thought was an old friend, for everything from violating the post\u2019s rules (despite others\u2019 employment of the stupid little yellow faces); to insulting me; to rudely \u201cwasting the time\u201d of my former friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In each case, obviously, I was being \u201ccanceled\u201d for voicing an opposing opinion. Ah. Marx and Mao could have been less murderous and bloody if they had thought of smiley-faces as their dictatorships\u2019 brands. But\u2026 some people are never happy unless they are unhappy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Happy<\/em>. I have thought of it this past week, as \u201cgood\u201d a week as I have experienced in some time. I have a new professional connection and a major book to write. I married a wonderful Christian woman. Our ceremony and reception (in Mickey\u2019s wonderful house) warmly was joined by old friends and new family. Am I happy? No \u2013 that is, not only<\/em> happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is a difference between happiness and joy, and the difference is not just a matter of grammar or philology, but of theology \u2013 that is, the nuances can hold lessons for our lives. The real distinction can, \u201cunhappily,\u201d be a bit frustrating to ascertain, as dictionaries these days tend to be sloppy. Too many dictionaries help us this way: \u201cHappiness, n<\/em>. The state of being happy.\u201d And \u201cJoy, n<\/em>. The emotional result of being joyful or cheerful.\u201d These should be moved in such dictionaries to the \u201cD\u201d section\u2026 for \u201cDuh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thesauruses I consulted helped when synonyms for Happiness included Satisfaction, Bliss, and Blessedness. For Joy there was the explanation, \u201cExtreme happiness,\u201d which holds average (?) happiness as relatively subordinate. So\u2026 the general consensus is that Joy is the superior state of emotion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Years ago my daughter Emily had the insight that Joy (her middle name, by the way) corresponds to spiritual matters; and Happiness \u2013 no matter how extreme or elevated \u2013 is a human emotion related to our worldly, temporal, and indeed temporary, pleasure. No matter how valuable: contentment, satisfaction, gratification.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To further validate the primacy of Joy, we recall some Bible verses:<\/p>\n\n\n\n I tell you that in the same way, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance<\/em> (Luke 15:7). Not mere \u201chappiness\u201d in Heaven; it falls short of Joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n James 1:2-4 says, Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance<\/em>. Here is an example of Joy being more mature, more efficacious, than mere Happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And finally the most familiar Bible verse about Joy: The joy of the Lord is your strength<\/em> (Nehemiah 8:10). We recall, as well, the admonition to make a joyful noise unto the Lord<\/em>; \u201chappy noise\u201d would sound very superficial!<\/p>\n\n\n\n In America\u2019s civic life we recall that the Founders proclaimed \u201clife, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness\u201d as a right. Later politicians elevated \u201chappiness\u201d as a right, not the freedom to \u201cpursue\u201d happiness. A tremendous difference, since governments have taken to themselves to define the meaning of happiness. And, now, proscribing many things we ought not to be happy about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So Happiness has become the secularists\u2019 Holy Word. Whittaker Chambers once wrote about this attitude adjustment: \u201cThe rub is that the pursuit of happiness, as an end in itself, tends automatically, and widely, to be replaced by the pursuit of pleasure with a consequent general softening of the fibers of will, intelligence, spirit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n The phrase \u201cpursuit of happiness\u201d has become a part of everyday discourse. In the same manner, many recognize the strains of Beethoven\u2019s great \u201cOde to Joy\u201d without knowing its meaning \u2013 or understanding the words, as it is Friedrich Schiller\u2019s German poem set to music. But the words remind us that Beethoven was a profound Christian.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here, some of \u201cOde to Joy\u201d that Beethoven chose for the chorus to sing in his revolutionary Ninth Symphony (I believe Henry van Dyke\u2019s translation). Take joy from the words, including —<\/p>\n\n\n\n All Thy works of Joy surround Thee, Flowery meadows, flashing sea; Singing birds and flowing fountains Call us to rejoice in Thee!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Thou our Father, Christ our Brother, All who live in love are Thine; Teach us how to love each other \u2013 Lift us to the Joy Divine! <\/em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n