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Occasionally around this time of year I challenge friends, or groups to whom I speak, to take notice of something and keep informal tallies of something related to Thanksgiving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have you noticed that \u201cthank you,\u201d as a phrase, is on the way out? To say \u201cthank you\u201d is not quite formal or stuffy, so not yet obsolete; but listen for the numbers of \u201cthanks,\u201d \u201cthanks a lot,\u201d and substitutions like \u201cI appreciate it,\u201d are taking its place. We all do it; and on TV and radio a forced informality has taken hold. And that\u2019s why it takes an effort to notice it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But more interesting is how \u201cYou\u2019re welcome\u201d seems consigned to the Endangered Species list. See: say \u201cthank you\u201d \u2013 or even \u201cHey, thanks!\u201d \u2013 to someone this week, and see how many of these replies are returned:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNo problem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNo prob.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYou got it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cSure thing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cYou bet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So on and so forth. An odd thing, really. Personally, I would prefer replies that we often hear turned into jokes\u2026 but should not:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cThank you!\u201d \u201cNo\u2026 thank you!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n This little exchange \u2013 depending on what is being exchanged or acknowledged, of course \u2013 gets to the essence of what\u2019s behind the social and conversational convention. Thanking someone, and saying so, indicates gratitude and praise, in fact a very civilized way of sharing outreach of some form. And \u201cyou\u2019re welcome,\u201d (and even more so \u201cthank you<\/em>\u201d) in a little way seals a bond of mutual respect and good will. It is what we call a social grace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And it has a spiritual aspect too. The origin and observance of Thanksgiving is peculiarly American as a national holiday. From the first days on these shores, Pilgrims who sought religious freedom designated a day to thank God for their protection and the harvests that sustained them. As part of the tradition handed down to us, Native Americans participated too, of course in a spirit of gratitude for provisions, but as well the spirit of amity that was established with the new settlers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That spirit survived and thrived through the establishment of other Christian communities; the guiding principles of the foundation of the Republic, and \u2013 after Abraham Lincoln, who first named and proclaimed a National Day of thanksgiving, praise, and prayer \u2013 presidential proclamations until recently have sounded more like sermons than political documents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In Lincoln\u2019s first proclamation, he wrote: \u201cI desire to be observed by all my fellow-citizens, wherever they may then be, a day of thanksgiving and praise to Almighty God, the beneficent Creator and Ruler of the Universe. And I do further recommend to my fellow-citizens aforesaid that on that occasion they do reverently humble themselves in the dust and from thence offer up penitent and fervent prayers and supplications to the Great Disposer of Events for a return of the inestimable blessings of peace, union, and harmony throughout the land which it has pleased Him to assign as a dwelling place for ourselves and for our posterity throughout all generations.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n In my own prayerful study I have been moved to see Thanksgiving as more than a one-way path of rendering thanks to God. As with every Holy Day, commemorations are on particular days of the Church calendar, of civic anniversaries, etc. But without exception they ought be observed<\/em> throughout the whole year, to be remembered <\/em>on every day. Celebrated; contemplated; revered. Not allowed to become taken for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Further, a thought about Thanksgiving in general and the first Thanksgiving that inspired all subsequent Thanksgiving Days. I have said it should not be a one-way affair. Giving thanks to God, of course, is essential. But I think we can have a richer appreciation of Thanks-giving as a concept if we consider that maybe God inspired Christian Pilgrims to receive<\/em> thanks as well as the heavenward offerings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That is, the bountiful harvests and safety and amity wherewith God blessed the Pilgrims might plausibly have been His grace and gratitude extended to a people who honored Him, who dedicated a new land and their individual communities, to Christ. To their burning desires to worship Him in a place of freedom. To the incorporation of Biblical principles into the early governing documents of the settlements, colonies, and country.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Isn\u2019t it possible that the blessings for which the Pilgrims were grateful were bounties and gifts that were one of God\u2019s ways of expressing thanks to His faithful people? It happens… when we serve and honor God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThank You!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201c<\/em>No\u2026 thank you!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n + + +<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of many hymns and songs about Thanks, this classic Ray Boltz songs always brings tears to my eyes. Especially so because, mirroring the lyrics, my own daughter was around eight when missionaries visited our little church and she promised God that she would pursue missions work. She eventually served in Africa, Russia, and Northern Ireland.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n