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Seventeen years ago (on the next Valentine Day, ironically) my wife Nancy received her heart transplant. For the subsequent six years, until we moved to California, our family conducted a hospital ministry at Temple University in Philadelphia. We visited weekly, at least, conducting services, praying with patients and their families, and ministering as we could, even to staff.<\/p>\n
There were breakthroughs, some healings, conversions to Christianity, and, as you can imagine, uncountable emotional moments.<\/p>\n
Our services invariably were comprised of the most random assortment of people\u2026 as random as the population is vulnerable to heart disease. Protestants and Catholics happily sat side-by-side. Hispanics and Asians who sometime barely understood the rest of us would attend\u2026 and often prayed earnest words that we all somehow understood. Skeptics and Jews were among our most faithful attendees. Wives and children of those waiting for hearts\u2026 or widows and families of those patients who sadly slipped away while waiting, or after unsuccessful procedures. (Even our eclectic music provided surprises. Blacks usually liked Southern gospel, rural whites appreciated black spirituals. We had a Jewish couple who loved, just loved, old Christian hymns. Moved to tears.)<\/p>\n
Pastors would ask Nancy how she, untrained as a speaker or exegete \u2013 and terminally shy, otherwise \u2013 could face the questions, the crises, the cries and sobs: \u201cWhy?\u201d WHY?<\/p>\n
Our only answers were consistent with scripture. There is sin in the world, and disease; nobody is immune. The Bible does not promise that we will be free of trouble; just that God will be with us through troubles, sometimes healing bodies, sometimes healing spirits. And the best answer to the burning questions \u201cWhy? Why me?\u201d \u2013 \u201cI don\u2019t know.\u201d<\/p>\n
This answer is not a counselor\u2019s sign of surrender; not a loss of wisdom. Rather it is the wisest course any of us have through many of life\u2019s crises. We cause some of our own problems; and the devil can bring things upon us. But. The mark of a mature Christian is not to load all the Bible verses we can into the knapsack, and whip out the best ones at the best moments. No: it is to admit that we need God. To call upon HIS wisdom. To pray without ceasing. God forbid we ever have the attitude of \u201cOK, God. Take a break. I\u2019ll carry it from here!\u201d<\/p>\n
In fact, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. That is in Psalm 111:10.<\/p>\n
It is a familiar verse despite its spotty application in many of our lives. There were other verses, in our hospital services, that patients and their families would often quote, to pass wisdom along, or to explain their brand of spiritual comfort-food.<\/p>\n
\u201cGod will never\u00a0give us more than we can handle.\u201d \u201cInto each life a little rain must fall.\u201d \u201cGod helps those who help themselves.\u201d These words are familiar to many of us. But would you fail a pop quiz about in which books of the Bible they can be found? The maxim about rain was written by the poet Longfellow; the last saying was written by Benjamin Franklin.<\/p>\n
God gives us burdens mercifully short of our breaking-points? Probably a corruption of I Corinthians 10:13, about God not tempting us beyond our powers to resist.<\/p>\n
This is an important point. God surely DOES allow things, and might even \u201cgive\u201d us things, that are more than we can handle. Why should we kid ourselves? It is an empty sort of security to think that this is not so. It is a false conception of God to think that a loving God would not allow such things. Tough to deal with, but true.<\/p>\n
Why else would we rely on Him? How can we seek His face otherwise? What would be the purpose of a Spirit-led life? Who would we go to, otherwise, in times of trouble? When we are in pain \u2013 emotional, spiritual, not only physical \u2013 what instincts should be automatic? Where can we go, but to the Lord? As Andrae Crouch wrote in his great song \u201cThrough It All,\u201d<\/p>\n
If I’d never had a problem,
\nI wouldn’t know God could solve them,
\nI’d never know what faith in God could do.<\/p>\n
Nancy used to say that she would not choose to go through again everything she endured\u2026 but she wouldn\u2019t trade the journey for anything. Behind those words was a saint who also received a kidney transplant, had diabetes, cancer, heart attacks, strokes, eye problems, amputations, dialysis, and more.<\/p>\n
January 21 is the one-year anniversary of her death. The testimony of a believer whose faith remained strong, and kept looking forward, and trusting even when she didn\u2019t understand, is encouraging still. It was the path of a Christian.<\/p>\n
There are other sayings that come to mind, that we always hear. Vince Gill, the singer-songwriter, properly dismissed a discussion about \u201cfilling someone\u2019s shoes\u201d by just declaring that sometimes they don\u2019t make a certain kind of shoe anymore. Which mirrors another proper definition: \u201cSome people cannot be replaced. They can only be succeeded.\u201d There is no shame or regret in that.<\/p>\n
The same Vince Gill wrote a song when his brother died. “Go Rest High” has become an anthem in churches and the country-music world, at funerals and memorials. His brother had a difficult life, and the words of the song, with a change of tense or nuance, could apply to Nancy and other faithful \u201cOvercomers.\u201d<\/p>\n
I know your life on earth was troubled,
\nAnd only you could know the pain.
\nYou weren’t afraid to face the devil;
\nYou were no stranger to the rain.<\/p>\n
Oh, how we cried the day you left us.
\nWe gathered \u2018round your bed to grieve.
\nI wish I could see the angels\u2019 faces
\nWhen they heard your sweet voice sing.<\/p>\n
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This clip of Vince Gill\u2019s classic song was performed at the memorial service of George Jones. Vince shows his emotions during the song \u2013 as he frequently still does, and can anyone who watches it do otherwise? \u2013 and is assisted by the great Patty Loveless.<\/p>\n