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My father, US Army Air Force captain, was involved in the D-Day invasion. He used to say that you could always tell the true military heroes at get-togethers: they were the ones who listened quietly and didn\u2019t brag. The braggarts usually were the phonys, he said. What did he do on D-Day? \u201cI was in the Weather Squadron,\u201d he answered. \u201cWe just flew over the coast and battlefields, safely looking at clouds.\u201d The toughest part for him, he said, was counting the planes, every day, of buddies who never returned to the English airfield at Bury-St-Edmunds in Suffolk.<\/p>\n
There is a similar dynamic with prayer. Christ Himself warned us against the types who make big shows, loudly praying, in prominent places in the church. We are to emulate those who steal away and pray modestly; and give, even if only mites, like the humble widow did.<\/p>\n
About personal prayer, we should be modest. We keep phone conversations quiet, or should; and a conversation with God is really no one else\u2019s business. But sometimes Christians are quiet because\u2026 they just don\u2019t know what to pray.<\/p>\n
I suspect that two people who are among the first names we all would cite as the saintliest amongst us, Mother Teresa and Billy Graham, often had times they simply were at losses over exactly what to pray. Not to compare ourselves to them (believe me) but when our family conducted a hospital ministry after my wife\u2019s heart and kidney transplants, and when, frequently, patients or families or spouses, or even doctors and nurses, would ask us with tears in their eyes, \u201cWhy?\u201d \u2013 we discovered that sometimes the best answer was, \u201cI don\u2019t know either.\u201d Honest prayers are starting- points. Presumption fools no one, least of all God.<\/p>\n
Such a surrender of our almighty wills and self-important knowledge can be liberating. We should not always pray for answers: sometimes we should pray for understanding. Both goals may elude us, but to seek understanding requires trust, and faith, and surrender. <\/p>\n
The Bible has a further solution for those moments of spiritual stammering. It is one reason that the Holy Ghost was sent into the world, in fact one of the job descriptions. \u201cThe Spirit also helps our weaknesses: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And He who searches the hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God\u201d (Romans 8:26,27).<\/p>\n
Body, mind, and spirit: they are not one, but our own trinities. When our bodies ache or we are troubled, and our minds stumble as we seek God\u2026 our spirits are able to connect with the Holy Spirit of God. We can pray in the Spirit, utter a gifted prayer language, or simply surrender our spirits to God. And we can feel it when that connection is made. Some Christians say \u201cwe know that we know that we know.\u201d We not only communicate with the Father, we commune with Him at those moments.<\/p>\n
Worse than being spiritually tongue-tied in moments of crisis or distress, is when we simply don\u2019t feel like praying. Why approach God? We might be resentful; we can feel abandoned; frequently we are confused. But fear not; do not be discouraged. All the saints of history have confessed to occasionally having such emotions. Those who don\u2019t, like those bragging war \u201cheroes,\u201d might not be truly seeking God anyway, but that\u2019s their business. Our business, however, when we don\u2019t feel like praying, is simple:<\/p>\n
Do it anyway. Offer a \u201csacrifice of praise.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cLet us go to Him outside the camp, bearing the disgrace he bore. For here, we do not have an enduring city, but we are looking for the city that is to come. Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise \u2013 the fruit of lips that openly profess His Name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices, God is pleased.\u201d Hebrews 8:13-16, NIV<\/p>\n
Praise Him for His many gifts. For the fact that your problem is not worse. For the unspeakable joy that awaits the Christian. For a godly perspective on our challenges. For the problems that did not come our way. For the incarnation and sacrifice of God\u2019s only Son for you. For a love so marvelous that a place has been prepared for you in glory. For\u2026 God so loved the world.<\/p>\n
When you can\u2019t think of what to pray, start with \u201cThank you.\u201d<\/p>\n
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